The Stability Reset - Part of the Stability by Design Framework
You have always been the responsible one: the Lady who keeps things together. And you do this without drama.
You are the Go-To Manager – in a domestic setting or a corporate one. You organize things for everyone, see to it that all the others have what they need or ask for.
And in a way, that is or was ok. It kind of feels normal to be THAT person as it does give you recognition and reassurance that you are important.
Though sometimes situations change. You might find yourself suddenly overlooked for promotions, or you are even asked to reduce your working hours or the opposite: more and more tasks end up on your desk – just like that.
Maybe your private life takes a turn into a direction you didn’t want to go but felt you had no choice but to comply – literally.
And maybe those changes you experience are not that dramatic, but you simply feel that everything just got so complicated…
And then you start asking yourself: how did all this happen? What about Me?
You might feel as if you are pushed around, from one corner to the other. And if you even think quietly about making an adjustment to this setting, you feel guilty or doubt that things would change in your favour anyway.
You just don’t seem to recognize yourself anymore.
In moments like these, you would quite naturally look to others for that missing recognition. And they might even give it you, though it feels like a dependency, where you – the strong and able one – suddenly require pampering.
This might feel needy to others and uncomfortable to you.
This is where the Stability Reset could help. This program is designed to support you in finding your own recognition – again.
It guides you through a process to define Recognition Rules that feel true to you and follows up with a stabilisation system to keep your ‘Life-Ship’ on an even keel, even when life gets again a bit complicated.
Still a bit sceptical about how this program could support you? I invite you to check out how this works.